Freddy Will's Notebook DATING American Dating Culture in the 2020s III

American Dating Culture in the 2020s III

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For heterosexual men seeking a traditional romantic partnership in the 2020s, three main strategies exist for connecting with women. Firstly, the direct approach (a bold, proactive initiation of conversation and a subsequent invitation to a date) remains viable. Contrary to the albeit misleading narrative propagated by a vocal minority of radical feminists, the majority of single women do not automatically perceive such overtures as aggression. They might if they are in a relationship, married, or uninterested, but if the man persists after they declined. The misrepresentation, fueled by online extremism, paints an inaccurate picture of reality. Instead, a respectful and genuine approach is typically well-received by most women seeking companionship.

Online dating presents an alternative path to romance. Successfully navigating these online platforms allows the man to connect with potential partners, transitioning from digital interactions to intimate, in-person relations. Should compatibility flourish, this can develop into a committed relationship. However, men should proceed with caution. A disturbing trend involves deceptive profiles created by shady people. It is yet another of their unsanctioned assault aimed at advancing their agenda. They target men on dating apps, fabricating accusations to manipulate dating app moderators into deleting their profiles. This tactic exposes a troubling pattern of agitators assuming the agency of other women, unjustly representing them without consent.

Please be careful of the misleading appeal of dating profiles. A suitor may think he’s engaging with his match, only to find himself caught in a scheme managed by these shadowy people behind a fake profile. These people skillfully avoid face-to-face meetings, constantly creating excuses to bypass video calls or direct interactions. Their malicious aim? To carefully collect personal information and use it as leverage for a relentless online harassment campaign. Some among them are tech-savvy computer programmers, data analysts, and hackers who can launch a digital attack on multiple platforms simultaneously. They hope to jeopardize the man’s visibility on numerous online platforms (to prevent his success), including social media and search engines.

These are the shadowy characters who take advantage of the system, secretly sabotaging men’s efforts to forge meaningful connections while operating beyond the law’s reach. Be wary of the deceptive tactics employed by these entities as they prey on unsuspecting men on the internet. Should apprehension by law enforcement occur, expect false accusations of them combating sex trafficking—a smear campaign designed to shield their manipulative intrusion. Their lies often afford them unwarranted protection from reprisal, leaving men vulnerable to their machinations. Online dating platforms have become common in today’s dating scene and present an illusion of safety, reducing the likelihood of immediate violence or harassment claims.

As a last resort, men have the option of compensated companionship. This involves a frank and open discussion of expectations with your potential lover. For those comfortable with direct negotiation, this approach offers clarity. The man provides lavish experiences and gifts, and the woman provides companionship. However, I strongly caution against this path, as it treads dangerously close to a transaction and potentially illegal activity. While exclusivity may be possible, the power imbalance and ethical concerns make it a challenging prospect. The arrangement, often termed “sugar daddy/sugar baby,” risks objectification and exploitation. While romantic feelings may develop, the foundation of the relationship is problematic and potentially harmful to both.

The pursuit of thrilling dates should never come at the cost of ethical integrity and respect. American women possess a mesmerizing spectrum of physical beauty, while some men tend to be wealthy. While a subjective rating system might place many at a respectable level, the reality is far more nuanced. A good number exude undeniable allure, possessing an elegance that commands attention. Others retain a quiet charm, and a subtlety reveals itself gradually. Indeed, some are breathtakingly stunning, possessing an exotic magnetism that leaves a lasting impression. However, fixating solely on physical attractiveness risks superficiality. Understanding their background, beliefs, and intellectual achievements fosters a more profound appreciation.

Also, please remember that attractiveness is a relative concept. Even the most conventionally handsome men might find themselves judged by the same subjective measures, ultimately creating a balanced perspective on allure and worth. A man can find the woman who captures his attention. Preferences are personal. Although the American healthcare system is not fully accessible to everyone, its advancements in medical care, particularly in reproductive healthcare, are impressive. Moreover, American women are extremely well-educated, reflecting the country’s strong educational system. Their insights are therefore guaranteed. American women possess a combination of intelligence, empathy, adaptability, and high education levels.

While many advocate for feminism, it’s important to acknowledge that relational dynamics often shape gender roles. A man might meet a woman who does not know how to cook, but dating these women at various life stages offers other experiences. Women in their twenties, typically focused on their studies, often prefer less committed relationships. In contrast, women in their thirties tend to be more open to meaningful connections, including marriage, if the situation and partner align well. Women in their forties and fifties, having drawn on past experiences from their marriages, parenting, or career responsibilities, bring valuable insights to their relationships. Regardless of their age, one trait consistently emerges: impressive social elegance.

These women are adept at harvesting warm and engaging interactions, prioritizing comfort, and eliminating any awkwardness. Their spirited personalities ensure conversations are delightful and memorable, creating an atmosphere of genuine connection. To maintain a connection, the man must match their energy. Their interests span a vast range, including fashion, popular culture, and the sensational world of celebrity news, as well as areas such as music, art, and travel. In certain regions, many people own both personal vehicles and independent living spaces. American women have a passion for style and beauty, relishing the opportunity to adorn themselves to make a stunning public appearance. Americans are generally consumer-based.

While some opt for a relaxed aesthetic, perhaps shunning mainstream trends, they remain keenly attuned to the latest casual fashion trends. American women often adopt a progressive outlook on intimacy, seamlessly integrating it into the vast drapery of their lives. Sexuality, for them, is a satisfying component of their being, experienced with a natural grace. While liberated from antiquated norms, this freedom isn’t synonymous with indiscriminate masculine behavior. Instead, it manifests as a thoughtful selectivity, a commitment to forging connections only with partners deemed emotionally and physically resonant. These women are ardent and intrepid in their explorations of intimacy, proactively seeking to enrich their experiences and enthusiastically embracing innovation. Their pursuit of fulfillment renders them exceptionally compelling companions.

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Wilfred Kanu Jr.

Wilfred Kanu Jr., known as Freddy Will, is a Sierra Leonean-born American author, music producer, and recording artist. He writes on history, philosophy, geopolitics, biography, poetry, public discourse, and fiction. He resides in Berlin, Germany, mixing hip-hop music with jazz, calypso, dancehall, classical, r&b, and afrobeat.
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