I still have some mansplaining. Many believe traveling abroad to find, date, or marry a traditional woman is black and white. But it’s not. Dating and hookup cultures are very different outside of western countries. For one, their ethical tolerances are not the same. Bear in mind that the context of this article focuses only on the subject of courtship and marriage to create a traditional nuclear family. Although I will generalize with some verifiable data, this article is for entertainment purposes. Therefore, the ideas are based on my opinion. Now, before we get down to the nitty-gritty, let’s clear up the following concepts to make sure we’re all on the same page:
Passport Bro – A western man of traditional beliefs who has enough money and education but believes he cannot find a suitable mate for romance in the west. He refuses to date, marry, or start his nuclear family with what he perceives as a modern woman. This talented and often charming millionaire or hundred thousandaires believes that the contemporary women in his country have drunk the Radical Feminist cool aid. To him, they have mutated past the point of no return (they are Feminazi). A Passport Bro sees no way a romantic relationship with a “modern woman” will work in his favor. As a man of the Red Pill or Manosphere community, he travels abroad to find a fit and kind woman in a foreign land, expecting pleasure, marriage, happiness, and peace within their tradition.
For one, their ethical tolerances are not the same.
Modern Women – The consensus among Red Pill or Menospheric men is that these are Feminazi women. They live on the western continents of the world, mainly the United States, United Kingdom, Canada, some parts of Europe, New Zealand, and Australia. The phrase that the majority drank the radical feminist cool-aid means they are extremists. They terrorize society with racist maneuvers targeting straight men who follow traditional beliefs. Some of their racial tactics include reverse gender discrimination, financial disenfranchisement, non-cooperation with men, condemning straight men’s sexual exploits, annulment of straight people’s wishes, and sabotage of nuclear families. Besides Passport Bros, most men say Feminazis make sweeping allegations without evidence or proof.
Passport Bros argue that modern women are emotionally abusive in relationships and alienate traditional women. They name many other forms of bias towards heterosexual people who disagree with Feminazi’s assumptions. Furthermore, instead of equality, the Feminazi modern women dispute that all traditionally straight men are inherently evil and incapable of NOT being sexist, misogynistic, selfish, toxic, or narcissistic. Also referred to as western women, the Passport Bros believe Feminazi women support other fanatical mindsets and use deception or manipulative strategies. The Bros complain that many western or modern women are obese single mothers who use a lot of profanity, behave manly, take advantage of social welfare and expect men to marry them for who they are.
Traditional Woman – The idea that Passport Bros have put forward is that the standard woman should be definitive. These conventional women, rare in the west, contrast with modern women. Since she’s rational, she may not identify as a feminist in the modern sense. Instead, she runs away from radical feminism. It’s important to note that the Bros only acknowledge a biological female who aspires to have a nuclear family. This family includes the natural male, the traditional husband, and the father of their biological children. It’s an epic love story based on genetics from a conventional courtship perspective. The Passport Bros have preferred this.
Ones who have not basked in many sexual adventures with multiple partners.
This traditional woman wants to be a conservative wife and mother in her household. She upholds the family values that Feminazi or LGBTQIA people vehemently condemn. These matters include religion, tradition, catering for her husband and children, feminity, passing down this practice to her children, staying home as a housewife (when possible), and raising her nuclear and biological family. These women may not have a direct religious background, but they often have some spiritual discipline. Building on this, they have conservative ideas about what a woman and family should value and what choices a man should make to lead his family.
Dating – A basic idea you should take away (as a reader) is that when it comes to Passport Bros, we have yet to see a gay or transgender one. Bros have an old school of thought. I’m not saying there aren’t gay or transgender men in the Red Pill or Manosphere communities. For now, my closest guess would be that bisexual men coexist in this sphere of traditional men. As a result, these Passport Bros expect to meet biological women who are fit, feminine, beautiful, and cooperative with them. Ones who haven’t basked in sexual adventures with multiple partners. People who do not have a lot of emotional or psychological trauma.
Therefore, Passport Bros are NOT sex tourists; they’re not looking for prostitutes. Sex trafficking is the least of their desire. They hope to find an old-fashioned woman outside of the west. The Passport Bro expects to seduce his foreign darling and take her on a lifetime of American-style Hollywood dates. That includes dinners, movies, shopping, unprotected premarital and marital sex, flowers, partying, or romance in hopes of beginning and maintaining a monogamous relationship that leads to marriage. And so, this woman shouldn’t have illegitimate children. That brings us to our main topic. What types of women does the Passport Bro encounter?
She has a well-chiseled hourglass shape, puppy dog eyes, and a lovely face.
1. The Radical Feminist – Some Passport Bros have all the luck. He was able to find his perfect match as he got off the plane. He kicked his game. The adorable traditional lady liked it. They hit it off and immediately started dating. Mutual lust and admiration at first sight! Eight months later, they said “I do” before a Deacon while she was already two months pregnant with their first child. Wasn’t that so nice?! Unfortunately, it’s a pity that that is not usually the case. Instead, our Passport Bro was shocked to meet a cheeky and nonchalant radical feminist (overseas). Like all Feminazi, she believes that every heterosexual male benefits from patriarchy.
Rejecting romantic advances to deny a man something he wants is one of her ways of spitting on (as she sees it) male dominance. That’s why our Feminazi doesn’t brush her hair in the mirror. Nope. She ties a sloppy ponytail and wears no makeup, perfume, jewelry, or sexy clothes. Though well-educated, this young lady might live with a dog in a studio apartment, ride the bus or bike, and sabotage her male co-workers or clients. When she speaks, words like sexist, misogynistic, toxic, or narcissistic come out; thoughts like rape, molestation, or abuse aren’t far behind. Maybe she writes a firey feminist blog and participates in “let’s kill the patriarchy” rallies.
This lady would know a hundred ways to destroy a man’s ego. She hates flowers, scoffs at American-style dating, and resents the thought of marriage and family. Don’t even bother to mention your religion. She believes the scripture is misogynistic. Since she’s slender, the Passport Bro could see beauty in her simplicity, a challenge in her rejection. She has a well-chiseled hourglass shape, puppy dog eyes, and a lovely face. He may be persistent enough to win casual sex while she cleans three bottles of wine. Still, it would be a cold day in hell if this woman ever went into a traditional monogamous and romantic relationship with an American Passport, Bro.
He hopes they enjoy the wine and food until she agrees to a relationship.
2. The Party Girl – If the Passport Bro isn’t careful, this scenario sets him on a sex tourist’s path. Too much of it, and he might even go broke, become an alcoholic, or become a junkie. He had sex with the cycling feminist, but she’s been spooking him ever since. After encountering many of her other ball-busting Feminazi associates, he needed an ego boost. So, he signed up on Tinder. But his questionable matches wanted to take it slow. He’s got money, so he put on his most comfortable outfit and booked a VIP table at the hottest nightclub in town. For them, it’s costly and fancy. For him, it’s a drop in the bucket—a small price for his enjoyment.
He’s scrutinizing for a wife. The first woman he met didn’t care to date. Now he’s parched for the maximum chance of hooking up with another lady. He hopes they enjoy the wine and food until she agrees to a date. When he arrives at his “VIP table,” some charming party girls surround him with their friends. They wish to get high and drunk and dance the night away with the attractive stranger. Since he’s also fascinating, he makes friends with one of the “party girls,” who starts flirting. As they got drunk, they began French kissing, grabbing, rubbing, and laughing while they danced. The ladies are interested in this foreigner and his spending power.
The DJ blasts the hottest pop hits. The waitpersons refill their drinks. 4 am arrives with a hefty bill which the Bro pays. They dip into an Uber to end with unprotected sex at his place. They cuddle and sleep into the late afternoon. He orders food. They eat. Then she asks for some pocket change before bidding goodbye. He’s going to catch her in another nightclub. A new group of party girls would surround him at his VIP table. But… they brush his date suggestions aside for another drink, cigarette, or round of feverish intercourse. He realizes that a nasty STI case is right around the corner. So far, there’s no romantic relationship anywhere on the horizon.
3. The Amature Pro. – These ladies would go on a fake date, sleepover, or hang out for the equivalent of eighty bucks. All he has to do is call or text. She behaves similarly to the party girl but skips the pleasantries and guarantees the coupling. Wishing she would want him when he does. She’s his girlfriend for the night, day, week, or month, to do whatever he wishes with her. He could capture feelings and turn into her sugar daddy or “boyfriend.” Maybe she’s already married or in a relationship. The Passport Bro unexpectedly finds himself in this scenario while searching for his traditional queen. Yes, conventional women exist, but he must keep digging to discover one.
The crazy part is when the Passport Bro discovers that the line of morality can get blurry when he’s on his second bottle of Gray Goose. Especially when the DJ stops vamping the best pop songs, the women never stop flirting left and right. As an American, he’s not used to it. He’s used to being embarrassed and maltreated when he dares to expect some form of sexual engagement. He must return to the United States when he didn’t travel abroad to find sex. Feminist journalists and whistleblowers are already calling him a sex tourist and don’t give a damn about his mansplaining. The title of sex trafficker is right behind the sex tourist accusation.
The Bro is there for that faithful woman he’s heard of who takes care of her husband while running the home. He doesn’t understand this hookup culture. Are these women any different from the ones back home? They seem to like foreigners a lot. For many, he will meet on the streets, at the mall, in bars, or clubs. A few dollars work magic. They have easy access to abortion and accessible health care for STIs, and if they do get pregnant? Well, the state has a welfare program that pays for the child. They only need a place to park the baby so that they can return to the party. That’s when he finds out that this little thing is a 30 years old single mother of three.
Feminist journalists and whistleblowers are already calling him a sex tourist…
The Passport Bro will meet women even worse than the ones he left back home. On the one side, he meets a radical feminist who is independent and robust and doesn’t need a man. The other side features the party girl or amateur pro who accepts a hundred bucks and promises an unforgettable time. They will test his resolve. Expect him to be shocked when he wakes from a drunken daze to find he’s cuddling a ladyboy. There are reports of British men waking up with sore anuses after being raped while intoxicated on a night out in Spain. Does it sound hairy when I don’t think a Passport Bro needs to leave the United States to locate some prostitutes?
Of course, the sex trade is typical in European countries, South America, Asia, etc., but in the last decades, the toothless crackwhore has given way to sexy dimes. Now you see a prostitute, and you wonder how beautiful she looks. The fact is that prostitution exists in every country today. It’s the easiest way to get laid. But… there’s no commitment, so it defeats the purpose of being a Passport Bro in the first place. Prostitution is a business transaction. The whore provides a service. Even in the States, where the service is illegal, the price is slightly higher than that of a McDonald’s Happy Meal. There are thousands of “working girls,” brothels, and whore houses.
Flirting and dancing with the Passport Bro, this adorable-looking party girl with a pretty face, C-cup boobs, and bubble butt could be a homeless prostitute. That might be why she’s going home with him that night. The cute college coed on the dance floor might be ready to strike a sexy arrangement tonight. It would take discipline and a clear head for the Passport Bro to continue his search for his queen. He discovers that the opportunities for casual sex come from various partners daily. They get paid to eat, drink, party, have a great time, and cuddle in a comfortable bed after multiple orgasms. These women might even think they’re getting a great bargain.
Here he gets the complete package, the traditional woman, the eye candy, and…
4. The Gold Digger – Culturally speaking, while the Bro like casual sex, he doesn’t want a party girl long-term. His main goal is to find a homemaker, and he is interested in proving that she needs him. He wants to demonstrate to the independent woman that she needs him. This is when he graduates into the category that looks for give-and-take. After dabbling with feminists and running through local nightclubs, the Passport Bro might find a new pack of women in his path. This crowd is gentler but just as toxic. They’re not the amateur pros who charge a fee or the party girls who show up with a high tolerance for weed, alcohol, and mindblowing sex.
Nonetheless, these gold diggers will do anything for a Passport Bro who can pay their bills. She will be his fuckbuddy, girlfriend, or fiance when he has money to take her shopping, buy her expensive gifts, fly her in/out on costly holidays, drink bubbly, and eat gourmet. Once his bank account is empty, however, she’s gone. This option is up the Passport Bro’s alley, but he wants more loyalty. He wants a partner who will stay with him for better or worse. The gold digger will give him her version of a traditional wife if his wallet is thick enough. Make no mistake, tho. All over the world, women are now striving for gender and economic equality.
This search is not as easy as it sounds.
Even the most traditionalistic wife is subservient to a point. I don’t care if she’s from the Middle East, China, or India. Many women are obsessed with their education, business, or career. That’s the challenge for the Passport, Bro. He has to understand how to please the most attractive modern woman regardless of where she lives. Here he gets the complete package, the traditional woman, the eye candy, and the party girl, but only if his cash continues flowing. That’s the deal! Red Pill or Manosphere Men love to explain “hitting the wall.” Where will this Passport Bro find this sweet young lady looking for a good husband?
Or can he try to seduce an elderly lady, divorced or widowed? He hopes this older lady isn’t looking for something casual. It will be devastating if she is a married woman looking to cheat on her spouse with a handsome foreigner. He has heard that thousands of single women are waiting for a traditional male partner to propose marriage to them or become their future husband. Still, his two best choices, at this time in his search, are between independent women and gold diggers. This search is not as easy as it sounds. These can become an option if the nightclub crowd moves too fast while the gold digger burns a massive hole in his wallet.
They find the job possible and they repeat the same courtship cycle.
5. The Outdated Maiden – Courtship is very outdated today. The Passport Bro seeks a woman whose parents raised and prepared her to be a wife. That means she was never active in the frat culture. A young single mother of several children gives the Passport Bro the impression that she’s a retired party girl. That’s why he left his hometown. Some say that the modern woman acts with self-justification, so trying to please her makes them feel put down. When she has ended many precious relationships, ghosted, and flaked off on promising dates, gentlemen stop considering her as someone doing them a great favor if she pays attention to them.
In reality, women are used to proving to everyone else that they are worth dating. However, since the traditional woman has become obsolete after today’s hookup culture, her suitor must initially commit to her until the relationship develops. That’s the real secret. The keyword here is – obsolete. You want a man who isn’t an experienced fuckboy and a woman who isn’t a gold digger or a party girl. She has never been an amateur pro. She is not a radical feminist but enjoys respect and equality. She is outdated when it comes to popularity. Many women do not want to be damsels when the man who is supposed to save them is incapable of being faithful.
They’ve watched many princes turn into frogs when the frogs they kissed did not transform into a prince. Generally, people have been using the same hookup pattern for over thirty years. You meet, one or both of you are attracted, go on dates, start lying to each other, embark on something serious, get engaged, get married, buy a house, decorate it, buy cars, have kids, etc. When it’s a boy, you paint his room blue; if it’s a girl, you paint her room pink. One gets a ball, the other a doll. They attend kindergarten, elementary school, middle school, and high school. Then comes the university. They find the job possible, and they repeat the same courtship cycle.
Western parents have not raised their sons to be good husbands or fathers, nor do they teach their daughters how to be traditional wives. Hence, we have Passport Bros. The repeated gender role expectation without accountability is probably what LGBTQIA and radical feminists are tired of seeing. Culturally, we keep doing the same things. I don’t care how handsome. When he asks a woman out, she knows exactly what to expect. She knows he wants fantastic sex with no responsibility for the outcome. When he goes to the mall or the nightclub, women know his approach and what he will do to get them to go home with him for unprotected sex that night.
Even if she was the biggest slut in her town, Bro does not know her idols
If he’s African American, he uses the hip-hop playbook. A Caucasian uses the rock ‘n’ roll or country playbook. A Hispanic uses the Spanish playbook. The African will use the Afrobeat playbook. In general, it’s the same procedure, and modern women know that. She knows how the man will seduce her if she gives him the time of day. The Passport Bro lusts for a woman who doesn’t know his moves. He discovers that even abroad, the women are familiar with his seduction style. You eat and drink, enjoy entertainment or activity together, kiss and fuck and then decide whether to continue or start with someone new. As a Passport Bro, you take your playbook to the country of your choice to find your bride. The question is whether the person you meet will recognize your games.
The radical feminist not only acknowledges his double standards but also rejects them. She views the standard method of seduction as a form of manipulation. Party girls know why the Passport Bro booked that expensive VIP table at the club. They go with the flow. The amateur pro knows he wants unprotected sex, while her past makes monogamous traditional courtship impossible. So she offers a flat rate for an all-inclusive fake date. People are aware of the process. What the Passport Bro wants is to meet someone unaware to some degree. He plays Tupac, and she asks what is that? She has never heard of DMX. The old-fashioned girl dances to old-school pop. Even if she was the biggest slut in her town, Bro does not know her idols. For him, she’s pure. The problem is whether he will ever find her. *