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Most Western men aren’t evil. They’re just… afraid. Many do not possess a whole of anything valuable that a Western woman would want half of. But… these are the same men who generate that spark with the sexy waitress in Cape Town. Passions fly when they meet that cute university student in Vietnam. There is that “something” Western men have in other countries as they can more readily find a dedicated foreign wife. However, in Barcelona, Sophia is not drawn to men who are often available unless…. This internal conflict eats away at most Western men. One part wants to buy into the “power of choice” theory. Our self-imposed incompatibility betrays our reality. In a situation where Sarah openly expresses her desire for a supportive husband, biological children, and a joyful nuclear family, she finds herself at a crossroads.
She must overlook some of Unduku’s traits that hint he may not fulfill her immediate expectations. Sarah seeks a man who can match her emotional depth, and Unduku is eager to learn how to achieve that. However, the psychological pressures of Western society lead her to discount his potential. The media influences her to erect self-imposed barriers to genuine romantic connections. Her reluctance to embrace a suitor who doesn’t align with mainstream ideals may reflect self-sabotage. We inadvertently undermine heterosexual romance. Many Western women fear losing the freedoms that feminism has granted them, yet societal constructs have also influenced that freedom. Many Western women have found themselves in relationships with men who meet conventional expectations – kind, sane, financially stable, or from the West.
Yet, their romantic experiences often fall short. Instead of forging a deep connection, they encounter an emptiness. Some have turned to deceptive partners seeking fleeting intimacy rather than meaningful romance. Hurt by these experiences, they sabotage their future opportunities, clinging to the fantasy of a nonexistent male villain. Interestingly, some Western women seem to prefer the exhilarating pain of pursuit over what comes with responsibility. The irony lies in the potential in their aware mundane stabilizes of making poor romantic choices, yet societal pressure pushes them toward the wrong decisions. Sarah faced a choice, opting to sacrifice possible happiness for a mere illusion. However, the fear of settling down and regretting her decision prevented her from choosing Unduku. Can today’s West achieve a fulfilling relationship?
Women have a sisterhood that lacks a unified message. In this proverbial sisterhood, they either support one another regardless of circumstances or distance themselves from those who err. Among them are traditional women, radical feminists, trans women, critics of conventional roles, and those who prefer to stay single. Many women want to choose their husbands instead of the other way around. However, men encounter considerable challenges. We bear the costs of wedding rings, child support, and alimony payments. Despite the longevity of the MeToo movement, we have yet to see a case that favored a heterosexual male victim. Accusations of rape, sexual harassment, and domestic abuse often focus exclusively on one gender. That makes it difficult for heterosexual men to initiate romantic advances safely.
Systemic double standards include male-biased corporate policies, family court rulings, and educational systems. They contribute to dating woes in 2025. While we can direct some blame at the women, it’s essential to acknowledge that the system shares part of the responsibility. There is a concealed boardroom filled with radical feminists wielding resources and making decisions that impact traditional romance. Dating apps, for instance, often disadvantage male users. Companies and government agencies also act against the interests of heterosexual males (in the romantic context), and modern society generally exhibits biases against romantic men. This situation affects access to sexual relationships, romantic advances, marriage, and biological children. There is a systemic manipulation of dating choices that forces mishaps.
