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Back in the day, in the 90s, older guys would say sexually vulgar things about women. When I was younger, I saw a beautiful woman or two. I’d tell a friend what I’d do if we hooked up. But I or anyone I know can’t brag about GRABBING women by their private parts. If you’re not a rapist, you won’t talk much about the vagina unless you resist, especially in a long-term relationship. You might deem it disrespectful for someone to talk to your partner in a sexually vulgar way.
Canada is a very nice and peaceful country, where there are great opportunities for education, human rights, and employment.”
Like the United States, many immigrants come to Canada for a better life. Canada is lovely and peaceful, with outstanding educational opportunities, human rights, and employment opportunities. One of the reasons I’m most grateful for my decision to live in Canada is the personal growth I have reached while living here.
The living standards in this country are among the best in the world. Me, I had studied and worked in several institutions in the United States, dated, driven or owned nice cars, including my dream car, naturalized, and bought a “mansion” by the time I was 26 years old, so, without bragging, I was already set when I moved to Canada.
I first visited Canada when I was 28 years old, trying to reach the only goal I had not achieved. That was to record a Hip-Hop album. I fell in love with the country and decided to stay. At that time, I hadn’t discovered that my mother was manipulating my situation to distract me from that goal. I wanted to study Literature, write movies, rap, and produce music.
I wanted to study Literature, write movies, rap, and produce music. She wanted me to be a male nurse. Hence why I became a phlebotomist, I did very well in that line of work, but it was not my passion. I trusted her so blindly I revealed my plans to her. Unbeknown to me, at the time, she used that to engineer my failure in that goal. Canada gave me my dream back.
After all, I was a war child who, like every other war child, had a few bad habits that could be repulsive to others.”
While living in Canada, I developed the ability not to understand and distanced myself from bad habits. Through that, I’ve accomplished even more of my dreams. After all, I was a war child who, like every other war child, had a few bad habits that could be repulsive to others. Although my mother tried to manipulate me into choosing a nursing career, I studied Theater Arts, Accounting, and Hospitality.
Her constant second-guessing left me doubtful at the time, and although I was determined never to concede my dream for hers, I ended up studying a slew of random courses whenever the last one was not good enough for her. In Canada, my doubts were cleared. I became proud of my achievements, and I learned to seek my gratification as opposed to that of unsupportive people. Yep, I have a boatload of diplomas.
As a man’s man, I was never the best behaved, but when I discover my wrongdoing, I change them. I used to be very arrogant with other men but sweet with women. I’ve learned to be patient, never react to provocation when people get on my nerves and be more precise with my attack. I have always had a soft spot for kids and love animals.
AI enjoys hanging out, partying, having a good time, and of course, in my opinion, women always make those activities worthwhile. s a man, I can say getting laid is worth bragging about, so I identify with the idea of “locker room banter.” I’ve even rapped about women in some songs without claiming to be a saint.
Still, Donald Trump cannot seriously expect to be a US President if he’s a documented womanizer, yet alone if he comes off as a perv.”
It has to be said the media is full of shit! Wolf Blitzer is among the few decent journalists in the mainstream! As far as the press and the court of public opinion are concerned, a puppet master is using them to crucify Donald Trump because, at the height of global feminism, Hilary Clinton has been chosen to be the next president of the United States.
I do NOT believe CNN. I resent their biased and opinionated journalism. Then again, the media is notorious for airing unproven sexual allegations that assassinate the character of dominant men. Still, Donald Trump cannot seriously expect to be a US President if he’s a documented womanizer, let alone if he comes off as a perv.
I do understand the desire a man feels for an attractive woman. Of course, he wants her to make sweet love to him. A pretty girl gets a job at Subway, and suddenly, droves of well-dressed studs line up for a sandwich. 80% are there because they want to have sex with her. Not one of them even thinks about her feelings. Especially if the guy is an asshole with money, the best clothes, a decent ride, eats well, lives in a modest house, etc.
He feels deserving of a good lay with that amazing woman. But never does he assume that the woman won’t slap him if he groped her. And he might tell his friends how good she looks and how badly he wants her. The friend might let him know if she’s a slut. But even a perv knows not to grab her privates, also if she’s a slut.
Especially if the guy is an asshole who has money, the best clothes, a decent ride, eats well, lives in a decent house etc.”
Even if a guy’s confidence was in the stratosphere, he knows pretty women get a lot of unwanted attention from strange men. Most guys overthink their first approach. I’ve known guys who literally give women money and practically beg, stalk or harass them. I’ve seen girls in short skirts at the club complaining about being touched there.
Granted, I’m not a famous millionaire, so I wouldn’t know how women react to a guy in that lane. All I know is when my friends and I do “locker room banter,” The topic is women. We talk about women we want, women who are in love with us, etc. Some guys kiss and tell, but no guy brags about outright taking the sex. To me, this is where Trump crossed the line. He was not bragging about the chase. He bragged about making it.
When I’m with the boys, we talk about music, movies, fashion, food, celebrities, getting shitfaced, politics, political or socially conscious issues, guys we’ve whipped, marksmanship, hobbies and career plans, different cultures we’ve experienced while traveling, and YES! Women! I might contrast women in other countries.
We’re so against groping or sleeping with women against their will we would fight a guy who brags about that. We want to take that hottie to the club. We will compliment how beautiful she is or pop the question while sneaking a peek at her boobs, her booty, her hair, her lips, her eyes… etc. But usually, the focus is on what she does.
For example, “Hey Mike, what do you think about Stacy from the post office?” Or “how you like the ass on my new milf?”
The guys I know would be more impressed if the girl is a lawyer, a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a real estate agent, an insurance broker, etc., than if she was just a hot bimbo. For example, “Hey Mike, what do you think about Stacy from the post office?” Or “how you like the ass on my new milf? She’s a French professor”.
Or “check out this thot. She looks like Brooke Baldwin, but she deepthroats like Kelsi Monroe.” Usually, the friend agrees with or disputes your claim as the conversation goes to shits and giggles. Locker room banter is also about video games, sports, or cars. If not, it’s about the news or hot gossip in town. Never about “grabbing women.” Most men would like to be grabbed tho.
Men are usually afraid to make a move on the woman they want. Most usually depend on luck to get a girl in the sack. Men dread rejection, so we don’t push so naturally. There’s always a chance for a woman to cry rape, so most men don’t even let the girl catch them looking at her goods, let alone grab them. This is what makes Trump’s statement disturbing. He tried to seem cool because he knew some women would reject a man even if he had respect, money, or power.
In most countries, if a guy has money, dresses fashionably, drives a nice car and has a luxurious home, he can have casual sex with dozens of beautiful women.”
In Canada, I learned to respect myself as a man. To value my time, energy, semen, and reputation enough not to throw them at every woman I lust for. It’s true. A confident woman can be so cute a mighty man will lower his standards to sleep with her. Besides, what’s money and power when you can’t get laid? In most countries, if a guy has money, dresses fashionably, drives a nice car, and has a luxurious home, he can have casual sex with dozens of beautiful women.
In Canada, I found that women resent a man with power. They usually try to compete instead of falling in love with him unless he’s a politician. Canadian society makes men humble since many women tend to go for the bum. I noticed numerous gainfully employed men dressed rather peasant-ish… worn out and dirty shoes, cheap pants, no haircut. (A few women respond to money, and a handful of guys dress nicely).
I also saw that because of bad experiences with men, many Canadian women are afraid to fall in love with sweet talkers. Even the biggest sluts expect to land a guy with excellent qualities to start a family with her, regardless of whether she has two baby daddies and is raw dog Charlie’s long-term on-again-off-friend with benefits. So the Canadian locker room is incredibly dull.
The locker rooms I experienced were rather depressing. Most Canadian men talk themselves down and accept the proverbial skirt in the connection. So you won’t hear too many of them bragging about natural pussy, pumping and dumping, smashing two best friends, sisters, cousins, or whatever. The guys were shameless about their porn collection, which led me to assume that they were masturbating chronically. But again, that was my assumption. Ever so subtle, these guys could be well-sexed.
The point is, guys, talk about women’s bodies, rate beauty, and notice them sexually. I’m sure that other men have said much worse than Donald Trump. But they are not running for president. Some guys get drunk and resort to domestic abuse. I’m very grateful that I was lucky to experience Canada and grow up. My arrogance is in check now. Now I take a big brother approach with women. I protect them from guys like the old me.
I have also learned to trust women who are strong enough to protect themselves. This locker room banter incident with Donald Trump has been a reflection for men. To see how our behavior could be offensive to women and change that. But I’m afraid I have to disagree with the notion that men talk about women as Trump did. *
